methome (641 ) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 04:05 PM(#1 of 57)  |
 |
Wheezer thanks for starting this.
Kathy, my dear friend, my heart breaks for you and Rick.
Ruger is a fine girl lost to us all. We will never forget her wonderful face or all the joy she gave to you and to all of us.
May she find peace and rest and fun over the Rainbow bridge.

|
|
christmas-is-my-very-favourite-time-of-year!! (10 ) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 04:13 PM(#2 of 57)  |
 |
(((((Kathy and Rick)))))
You know what is in my heart.....
|
|
ffutsndoow (294 ) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 04:49 PM(#3 of 57)  |
 |
| Kathy, I am so sorry to hear this, I know what it means to lose ones pet. They are so much a part of our lives. We must cherish the memories as they are one thing that can not be taken from us. |
|
softwoman (560 ) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 04:52 PM(#4 of 57)  |
 |
With Sympathy
They will not go quietly, the pets who've shared our lives. In subtle ways they let us know their spirit still survives.
Old habits still can make us think we hear them at the door Or step back when we drop a tasty morsel on the floor.
Our feet still go around the place the food dish used to be, And,sometimes,coming home at night, we miss them terribly.
And although time may bring new friends and a new food dish to fill, That one place in our hearts belongs to them... and always will.
|
|
softwoman (560 ) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 04:53 PM(#5 of 57)  |
 |
| Someone posted that a few years ago and it's so true |
|
vintagedagmar (434 ) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 05:31 PM(#6 of 57)  |
 |
Kathy- So sorry for the loss of your Ruger-pup. I know your pup was very special to you! {{{{{Kathy & Rick}}}}}}} |
|
katz99mi (152 ) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 06:12 PM(#7 of 57)  |
 |
((((Kathy & Rick))))
 |
|
methome (641 ) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 06:16 PM(#8 of 57)  |
 |
|
|
*_stargazer_* (1329 ) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 06:18 PM(#9 of 57)  |
 |
Kathy, you are such a special person whom has a heart so large, it is truly an honor to keep your company whenever your posts are read. I send you so many prayers and heartfelt condolences, may god rest Ruger's soul, she's in such a divine place right now, and we can only find solace in knowing one day we will all meet with our pets again.
|
|
methome (641 ) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 06:18 PM(#10 of 57)  |
 |
It's been a long time since I've written a poem my friend - you know that. But I had to do something for you, and it's all I know to show you just how deeply I feel for you at this time.
If there is anything you want just let me know. I'm here when you want to talk. met |
|
kritterluver (43 ) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 06:23 PM(#11 of 57)  |
 |
Dear Kathy,
You know that my heart is with you on the lost of our sweet Ruger. When you made this gif for Lance's thread he just loved it......as do I. We will always remember her as "one of ours".
{{{{{Kathy}}}}}

|
|
methome (641 ) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 06:28 PM(#12 of 57)  |
 |
| Oh Kritter I'm so glad you posted that picture. |
|
uhhuhtoo (675 ) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 06:29 PM(#13 of 57) > |
 |
{{{{{Kathy & Rick}}}}}My heart aches for you's, please know that I send my deepest sympathies
|
|
redfiesta (11 ) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 06:34 PM(#14 of 57)  |
 |
My dear sweet Kathy and Rick.
I am so sorry for your loss. We have all lost a piece of our heart today also.
Hugs to you both!
 |
|
aquajunie (24 ) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 06:36 PM(#15 of 57)  |
 |
Dearest Kathy and Rick...
With a heavy heart tonight I can't express what's on my heart.....I'm so sorry about your sweet Ruger. I just hope that these words of comfort can ease the pain a little.
I can't even begin to tell you how sorry I am....You and I were just talking last night....this is such a shock.
You were so interested in posting my Tootsie's Memorial..I didn't expect you to do it that quick.....I'm so broken-hearted. I've seen, through the many threads, were you've put everyone's feelings ahead of your own...you are truly an angel, sent from God.
You have reached so many, countless millions, with the compassion for our beloved pets, no matter if it's a horse or a snail. You have made people realize that compassion for the animals are so important. They have feelings, and respond to love, just like humans......
I wish I could take away the pain you're feeling now...I would, if I could.
You're a special lady. Those of us who have read all your special posts, know you are special....
Thanks for being here...we will be here for you.
Sleep well, Ruger.....
Kathy and Rick will see you soon. |
|
casa_dei_cani_grandi (3) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 07:06 PM(#16 of 57)  |
 |
{{{Kathy and Rick}}}
I am so heartbroken for you. You have graciously shared Ruger with those here, and I have always enjoyed your pics. They have made me smile.
Please know you are in our prayers. |
|
jazzcat320 (11 ) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 07:33 PM(#17 of 57)  |
 |
I am so sorry....
In my thoughts...
 |
|
happi*trails1 (private) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 07:54 PM(#18 of 57)  |
 |
Kathy, I'm so sorry for your loss. Our condolences to you and your family.
|
|
junk---vender (10 ) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 09:11 PM(#19 of 57)  |
 |

Ruger's spirit will stay with you and your family~
it hurts so now but maybe it is some comfort to know that your sorrow is shared...
((hugs)) |
|
wheezerdog (540 ) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 09:40 PM(#20 of 57)  |
 |
Kathy, I found this and I think what you should do is make one up for Ruger.....
THREE-YEAR ANNIVERSARY TRIBUTE written by Rev. Lainie Dowell
God truly gives the oil of joy for mourning and the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness. He alone can fill the empty spaces which come when life erases the presence of a friend.
I once had such a delightful friend she was big and white and loved to grin. She loved to walk with me in the snow. She even loved when we had no place to go.
She did not mind being left alone. For she would still greet me lovingly when I arrived back home.
She would twist and turn and stay by the door. Then she would run up and down across the floor. Such a friend -- I could not ask for more.
Then when the end came it was much too soon. As I recall it was four hours past noon.
Where she lay Was where she went away. She lifted her head up high to the sky And all I could do was look on and cry.
Farewell, good friend, We shall meet again But until then
Go stand by the door -- His name is Jesus. Wait by the door -- His name is Jesus. Enter by the door -- His name is Jesus.
The one who is the Lamb of God loves the raven, loves the dove loves the petfriends that we love guards them by His might and leads them, also, into His good night.
Do animals live on after death? Does God only love humans best? Do petfriends have meaning beyond life? Does God care about their strife?
God made everything that was made and nothing that was made was made without His sayso.
God who had Noah salvage species to survive the flood. God who prepared the donkey and the colt for His Beloved's walk of blood.
God is love. God's love extends to all. Even to our petfriends when they fall. |
|
tickelupink (5) (view author's auctions) 12/13/04 10:25 PM(#21 of 57) > |
 |
| Kathy I am so sorry to hear of Ruger's passing. Loving her as you did gave her such a wonderful life, I hope you can find some comfort in knowing that and knowing how much she loved you back. |
|
katicksupplies (152 ) (view author's auctions) 12/14/04 06:31 AM(#22 of 57)  |
 |
My dearest friends,
I have been trying to find the words to thank all of you, the compassion and love you have all shown both Rick and I during this very difficult time has overwhelmed us. All of your posts, poems, pictures, emails, cards and calls have touched us both. I am at a loss for words.
As expected, it is so very hard, and I am having trouble holding myself together for more than ten minutes at a time. I miss my best friend and Rick misses her little girl. I know in time all the wonderful times and happy memories we shared will replace most of the hurt and sadness, but my heart is just so heavy right now and I do miss her so much. I know I always will.
Ruger had a good long life and yesterday her time had come. Both Rick and I made the decision to make sure she didn't suffer and to be able to let her go with the dignity and respect she so deserved.
My dear friends, again, thank you so much for your caring words and love, and thank you for being such wonderful Aunties and Uncles to our Ruger. It truly was an honour to share her with you all!
{{{{{{{{{{{ many hugs }}}}}}}}}}
Kathy |
|
methome (641 ) (view author's auctions) 12/14/04 06:37 AM(#23 of 57)  |
 |
| (((Kathy & Rick))) (((Ruger))) |
|
redfiesta (11 ) (view author's auctions) 12/14/04 06:46 AM(#24 of 57)  |
 |
| (((Kathy, Rick & Ruger))) |
|
ffutsndoow (294 ) (view author's auctions) 12/14/04 07:02 AM(#25 of 57)  |
 |
Kathy, Thinking of you this morning, I cried for 3 days when I lost my Miss B, Brother told me, "its only a dog",,, I told him, you don't understand. I still have her picture sitting in front of my computer.
|
|
aquajunie (24 ) (view author's auctions) 12/14/04 07:12 AM(#26 of 57)  |
 |
((((((((HUGS AND TEARS))))))))
Kathy and Rick......you're in my thoughts and prayers today.......I pray that you will be comforted by the Creator, who made all living things, God.
I know Ruger's sprit is with you...she'll always be there, just like my precious Tootsie is....I still call her name...and I know she will always be here.
Precious Memories...
I'm here for you, believe that. |
|
wheezerdog (540 ) (view author's auctions) 12/14/04 08:28 AM(#27 of 57)  |
 |
Kathy,
The love you and Rick showed your Ruger was a love thats not often seen. The choice of putting down your pet can only come from our love for our animals and knowing when the time is. While I know your heart is broken and there is no way to ever replace Ruger your job is not done. I know you were chosen because what you do is rare. Your love for the animals is very unique. I'm sure you can remember the day you brought her home and the feeling in your soul that you had saved yet another doggie. You know there is another doggie out there just like Ruger that needs your love and care.
Thank you for everything you do Kathy..... please pass on to Rick how sorry I am.
Hugs to you both. |
|
nonny-mouse (38 ) (view author's auctions) 12/14/04 08:43 AM(#28 of 57)  |
 |
{{{Kathy & Rick}}} & (((All of Ruger's friends at the Park)))
Tears, hugs & prayers,
robN & Bob & Dude |
|
wheezerdog (540 ) (view author's auctions) 12/14/04 09:40 AM(#29 of 57)  |
 |
Ruger-Puppy,
All I can say is I was so happy that you were part of my life too. I know you were a wonderful companion and you will be in my memory forever and forever missed....
With much love from wheezer....
We will always Love You |
|
chunkees_munkee (0) (view author's auctions) 12/14/04 09:49 AM(#30 of 57)  |
 |
| I'm so sorry, Kathy. |
|
methome (641 ) (view author's auctions) 12/14/04 10:50 AM(#31 of 57)  |
 |
Anyone wishing to send flowers please consider this alternative, a donation in Ruger's name to the Ontario Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals. Or a donation of any sort to any Animal Shelter or Rescue League of your choice. Kathy and Rick would greatly appreciate it.
http://www.ospca.on.ca/ych_home.html
Please email me for more information if you need it.
Thank You methome |
|
jazzcat320 (11 ) (view author's auctions) 12/14/04 11:01 AM(#32 of 57)  |
 |

Great idea, Met. |
|
wheezerdog (540 ) (view author's auctions) 12/14/04 11:16 AM(#33 of 57)  |
 |
Met,
Thanks for the post and the email.... the donation is on it's way.
Thank you sweetie.... |
|
shamandura9 (60 ) (view author's auctions) 12/14/04 01:02 PM(#34 of 57)  |
 |
(((Kathy and Rick)))
My heart is with you. Both of you and Ruger were so blessed to be together in the love that you all shared. |
|
christmas-is-my-very-favourite-time-of-year!! (10 ) (view author's auctions) 12/14/04 02:10 PM(#35 of 57)  |
 |
((((Kathy)))))
Met what a wonderful idea for donations!!!
|
|
methome (641 ) (view author's auctions) 12/14/04 02:27 PM(#36 of 57) > |
 |
Krysta thanks and Wheezer and Jazzy - I think it's a fitting tribute to Ruger too.
On the Ontario SPCA website, you can even fill out a form for the donation to be in memorium to a particular pet. I couldn't pay online that way, but could print out the sheet and send in a check. And then Kathy can get a card saying the donation had been made in Ruger's name. So if anyone needs Kathy's address to fill out the form just let me know.
I know Kathy really appreciates all the wonderful posts from everyone. It really helps at a time like this.
met |
|
jackie@ebay.com (view author's auctions) 12/14/04 02:50 PM(#37 of 57)  |
 |
katicksupplies
I am so sorry for your loss. They are with us for such a short time but they leave behind their love and devotion. That is something that never leaves us.
May you remember the happy times with a smile and the sad time less frequently.
Jackie |
|
tmfvideo (616 ) (view author's auctions) 12/14/04 09:09 PM(#38 of 57)  |
 |
| (((Kathy))) I echo everyone's sympathies for your sad loss. I know she lived a wonderful life with you taking care of her. Hang in there sweetie. -Tom |
|
vmobutterfly (160 ) (view author's auctions) 12/15/04 02:04 AM(#39 of 57)  |
 |
Dear Kathy,
I rarely get the chance to come by the Boards anymore, but tonight just thought I would peek in before bed and sadly saw this thread for you. I want to tell you how very sorry I am to hear that you lost your beloved Ruger, it has always been so obvious how much you love your baby and how much she loves you (((hugs))). Since my first experience with the Pet Contest a couple of years ago, I haven't forgotten your kind heart and your Ruger's sweet face. I'm sorry that I don't have any pretty gifs for you but wanted to leave you one of my favorite poems and also hope that you may find a little comfort in knowing you will see your baby again
I Stood By Your Bed
I stood by your bed last night, I came to have a peep. I could see that you were crying, you found it hard to sleep.
I whined to you softly as you brushed away a tear, "It's me, I haven't left you, I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here."
I was close to you at breakfast, I watched you pour the tea, You were thinking of the many times your hands reached down to me.
I was with you at the shops today, your arms were getting sore. I longed to take your parcels, I wish I could do more.
I was with you at my grave today, you tend it with such care. I want to reassure you, that I'm not lying there.
I walked with you towards the house, as you fumbled for your key. I gently put my paw on you, I smiled and said "it's me."
You looked so very tired, and sank into a chair. I tried so hard to let you know, that I was standing there.
It's possible for me to be so near you every day. To say to you with certainty, "I never went away."
You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew ...
in the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you.
The day is over... I smile and watch you yawning and say "goodnight, God bless, I'll see you in the morning."
And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide, I'll rush across to greet you and we'll stand, side by side.
I have so many things to show you, there is so much for you to see. Be patient, live your journey out ... then come home to be with me 
Author Unknown
((hugs)) Vanessa |
|
katicksupplies (152 ) (view author's auctions) 12/15/04 06:07 AM(#40 of 57)  |
 |

Friends are angels Who lift us to our feet When our wings have trouble remembering to fly....
It isn't often, but I am so much at a loss for words.....
Thank you for being my friends, thank you for caring, thank you for your support and beautiful words, it truly has meant the world to me to know you are all here for me.
{{{{{{{{{{ HUGS }}}}}}}}}}}}}
Kathy |
|
queenieangels (14 ) (view author's auctions) 12/15/04 06:33 AM(#41 of 57)  |
 |
Kathy, I just now saw this thread, and I thought my heart would break. I too have watched with smiles as Ruger traveled the world from Iraq to The Park here at Ebay. I loved seeing all the different pictures that Ruger would magically appear in.
I think all that can be said, has already been said..but, wanted you to know that you and Rick are in my thoughts and prayers.
(((Kathy))) and (((Rick))) |
|
carolyn0406 (25 ) (view author's auctions) 12/15/04 07:38 AM(#42 of 57)  |
 |
(((Kathy)))
Oh, Sweetie, I just don't know what to say.. My heart breaks for you and Rick. I understand the hurt and the intense feeling of loss and I wish I could do something...anything...to help you through it.
I would like to thank you for sharing Ruger with us...Your beautiful pup brought many smiles to my face!

C |
|
peachshell (68 ) (view author's auctions) 12/15/04 10:38 AM(#43 of 57)  |
 |
Kathy and Rick I am at a loss for words. Ruger was so much a part of the park that I find it difficult to believe she is gone.
You both shared her love and humor with all of us and for that I thank you.
Farewell special friend. |
|
tschinzel (241 ) (view author's auctions) 12/15/04 01:27 PM(#44 of 57)  |
 |
| I just want to say how sorry I am Kathy. Ruger will always be with us all. Such a beautiful, friendly pup! ((((Kathy and Rick)))) |
|
zinggrace (13 ) (view author's auctions) 12/15/04 04:52 PM(#45 of 57)  |
 |
Kathy (((hugs))) for you and Rick,
My heart is so sad right now. I believe that when our furry friends leave this earth, God, tenderly places them in the lap of an angel.
Thank you for sharing Ruger with us, you have made us laugh and smile. (((hugs))) Know you did what was best for Ruger, I know right now it hurts and it will always hurt but in time, time will turn the sharp pain into a dull ache in your heart. I know Ruger was blessed to have you and Rick for her family...Your love for her showed in all you did.
Love
Ali, Jack, Jill, Teddy and Tag
PS: Jack sends you lots of puppy kisses and hugs |
|
wheezerdog (540 ) (view author's auctions) 12/16/04 05:36 AM(#46 of 57)  |
 |
Kathy and Rick,
May this day shine for you and may the heartbreak start its mending ways. You guys are never far from our thoughts.
Love and hugs from Kansas.... |
|
jazzcat320 (11 ) (view author's auctions) 12/16/04 11:50 AM(#47 of 57)  |
 |
 |
|
haytaps (54 ) (view author's auctions) 12/16/04 12:25 PM(#48 of 57)  |
 |
(((Kathy)))
Ruger, we will miss you, girl. |
|
the_dreaded_aero_push (0) (view author's auctions) 12/16/04 06:07 PM(#49 of 57) > |
 |
Kathy and Rick...
Sincere apologies for my neglect of the Park...but truly, I always felt a bond with you...because of the pups..ya know
For so many years my sweet furried ones have crossed the Rainbow Bridge...with the wind in their ears...it won't be Heaven without the Reunion...I know...I know we are promised...
Lynn
|
|
wheezerdog (540 ) (view author's auctions) 12/16/04 06:44 PM(#50 of 57)  |
 |
| And Lynn... I know we will all be there. Thanks for stopping by.... I know you just lost your friend not too long ago. |
|
cubcadebt (170 ) (view author's auctions) 12/16/04 07:28 PM(#51 of 57)  |
 |
Kathy,
I am so sorry to learn of your loss. I know how difficult this is, because I went through it earlier this year, too. Please know that I'll be thinking of you and Rick, and praying that your pain may be eased by the knowledge that you gave Ruger such a wonderful home and so much love. Lynn is exactly right, what a reunion we will have when we all get to Heaven!

Please take care of yourselves, and know that you have friends that truly care for you here! |
|
jazzcat320 (11 ) (view author's auctions) 12/18/04 09:10 AM(#52 of 57)  |
 |
|
|
methome (641 ) (view author's auctions) 12/18/04 09:42 AM(#53 of 57)  |
 |
Just stopping in to leave some hugs for Kathy and Rick and all the wonderful friends that have stopped by here with such warm words for them.
And Cubby, that rainbow bridge gif is absolutely beautiful.
|
|
katicksupplies (152 ) (view author's auctions) 12/18/04 11:08 AM(#54 of 57)  |
 |
My dear friends
I cannot even begin to express in words how appreciative I am with all your support this past week. The outpouring of love, thoughtfulness and genuine concern and caring has meant so much to both me and Rick. It truly is helping in my healing process. Ruger was a very special part of our family and I know she would be so honoured by all the tributes and compassionate good-byes.
So on behalf of Rick and I, thank you so very much from the bottom of my heart. I wish I could reach in and give each and every one of you all a big ole hug!

|
|
peachshell (68 ) (view author's auctions) 12/19/04 04:35 AM(#55 of 57)  |
 |
| ..... for Ruger |
|
christmas-is-my-very-favourite-time-of-year!! (10 ) (view author's auctions) 12/19/04 08:46 AM(#56 of 57)  |
 |
((((Kathy)))) I miss you....
 |
|
wheezerdog (540 ) (view author's auctions) 12/19/04 02:06 PM(#57 of 57)  |
 |
Krysta,
We all do.... it kinda gives you the feeling expecially at this time of year what it would of been like if Kathy would of never been born just like James Stewart did in 'It's a Wonderful Life'. I don't even want to think about it. What a loss that would be..... |
|